We all know how Indian weddings are! So full of fun, naach gaana, sangeet, mehendi and not to forget the lena dena or wedding gifting that tops the chart in Indian wedding typicality. Yes, there are plenty of things and features that describe a typical Indian wedding and wedding gifts are something that is much talked about.

A few takes it too seriously and rack their brains finding out a significant one for the married couple. Whereas there are few who believes in recycling and forgets the agenda of gifting in the first place. We understand and respect that gift giving ceremony includes a few factors; budget, time, value, personal bonding, so and so forth. But then, we also get to see some unnecessary, useless and at times bizarre gifts that are good only to occupy the space in your home. Here is our list of the top weirdest gifts that an Indian couple do not want at their wedding. Decide and decode for yourself whether these lovingly-wrapped gifts are actually worthy or not.

Bedsheets/ Upholstry- Too Broad and Basic

Thanks you thought broad and wide but the newly wedded couple do surely not like like the bunch of bedsheets and curtains out there. It becomes shocking for the bride and groom to collect so many after the wedding is over. Bedsheets are surely not irrelevant but it gives a low to see them as a wedding gift. Aren’t these overdone? The edgy bride and groom want to steer clear of anything that is common. An effort of choosing something of their taste would have been appreciated.

Flower Vases- Boring Bunches

Too laid back to look beyond! It’ a number one pick that keeps adding on to numbers.  After all how many do you need? Weren’t the real ones gifted by relatives and friends enough? The artificial flowers and vases only add to numbers after all. It’s remote, outdated ad so much like an auntiji’s choice. It’s a safe choice but not unique and tasteful. You can never have too much of guldastas. After all how many do you need to deck up your home?

Sarees, Dress Materials or Fabrics- Cut it short

Thank you! You have not just given us a gift but a project that would incur ‘n’ number of trips to the tailor. The catch is that the task of putting together the lovely fabrics into something wearable will come on the lady (bride). The sarees and fabrics are arguably the most useful but not that thrilling anymore. Also, for those who don’t indulge in stitching game, these are totally like a dump. It would have been still okay if there were ready-to-wear clothes. Well, the size issue is the excuse they have to present you the fabric pieces.

Kitchen appliances- Don’t Dish These Out

A bride will surely get pissed off with the idea of being transformed into a ‘Queen of the Kitchen’. Also, the efforts towards offering her a fully function kitchen will not go down well with her. Let’s be clear! This gift giving option for kitchen doesnot compliment the choice of the couple and doesn’t fit well with the already stocked kitchen with high-end and designer appliances, dinner sets, and crockery or storage containers.

Pressure Cooker- Too Steaming

We have already mentioned kitchen appliances for sure but pressure cooker deserves a special mention for being the most common and ordinary gift by elders, especially aunties. We can only appreciate this gift for being practical and relevant but the oh-so-ordinary touch makes it a strict no-no. Also, it’s not that tough to figure out that the same pressure cooker is being recycled since years.

Bathroom Linens- Groom it Up

You feel like crying to see that there was not even a single thought when they have decided to gift this, let alone the efforts. The giver must realize that every couple handpicks their own set of bath towels and grooming essentials. No wonder, it tops the list when it comes to most common wedding gifts. Still, it’s just a gift. We don’t want to make them feel offended but there are so many deals and discounts in markets that could have been explored.

Clocks- No ‘Quality Time’

These are anything but plain boring. Surely, clocks are used but not to be enjoyed as a gift by newly wedded couple. So, please understand that the time is not right to gift the duo a clock. People please understand that clocks have taken a backseat and are very old-fashioned.  We would have preferred something that we could have toast our love at.

Photoframes- It Doesn’t Click

We understand that you didn’t want to burn on extra cash but photo frames? Are you kidding the bride and groom? The new lovebirds have already spent a lot of moolah on wedding photography and have their share of photographs and albums. Their romantic space is already snuggled up with so many. Do you think one more photoframe will find a space? We request you to upgrade your philosophy and thoughts when it comes to wedding gifts.

Religious Idols- For Ghar Ki Laxmi

Not there is anything wrong picking an auspicious gift like a religious figure. Infact it is meaningful, inspirational and for good luck. But at times they are so many in number that the home will look like a fest if we put them all together. The idea behind the gift is not wrong but the idols outnumber all the gifts that a couple get.  So, the issue is the number of religious figures, ceramic statues, diya holders in shape of idol and many more such items.

Times have changed and so is the style and idea behind Indian wedding gifts. For the couples, who are about to combine their lives into one happy home, you need to think beyond the basics. With due respect, we just have mentioned out a few over here that would help you change your way of gifting. The aim of the article is to make you drop these and go for some contemporary gift ideas. Shaadiyari.com will soon update you with fresh and innovative gift ideas.